Prince Harrys partner is initiating real change in UK race relations. It was exciting to hear the royal family defend this mixed-race relationship
I have never been much of aroyalist. As a child, I was more interested in becoming an author or a pop star than a princess or duchess. But Im 100% here for Meghan Markle and her potential shakeup of Buckingham Palace. Ifthe rumours of her forthcoming engagement to Prince Harry turn out tobe true, it will redefine royalty for anew generation of Brits, because not only is Meghan an accomplished American actress and a philanthropist who is shunning many traditional royaldating protocols, but she is also ablack, mixed-race woman. A union between her and Prince Harry would be socially momentous for the country, and especially so for us brown-skinned Brits who never saw ourselves reflected in the all-white Palace lineage.
This week, it was announced that Meghan had quit her role in the TV show Suits in an apparent bid to prepare her for the royal wedding. Andlast month she spoke candidly about being in love in an interview with Vanity Fair.
In a weird first for me, I discussed the article with my mates. Idont usually speak about the royals except to disparage them. Buckingham Palace is an antithesis to diversity, and so has never really interested me.
But mixed-race, California-born Meghan her mother is an African-American with dreadlocks, and her father is Caucasian is here to disrupt (in a good way). A self-described activist on Twitter, she is something of a humanitarian icon for brown-skinned women all over the world. Earlier this year, she went to India, tohighlight the stigma surrounding menstruation for poverty-stricken women in Delhi and Mumbai, writing apiece for Time magazine in which she advocated policy-making surrounding menstrual health initiatives.
In 2015, she also spoke about her battle with her mixed-race identity, telling Elle that she was always fighting to define herself on her own terms, personally and professionally. You push for colour-blind casting, you draw your own box You create the identity you want for yourself, just as my ancestors did when they were given their freedom, she said.
I never understood the hype surrounding Diana or Kate. I remember being confused, aged four, when I got up to find my mum sobbing in front ofthe television as reports of Dianas death flashed across the screen. But Meghans presence within the palace feels different: she is initiating real change when it comes to UK race relations.
When Kensington Palace released astatement on behalf of Harry condemning the British press for their outright sexism and racism in 2016, to me, it signalled new levels of wokeness for British society. To hear the royal family publicly defend amixed-race relationship and inadvertently highlighting the intersectional politics that many women like me and Meghanface on adaily basis, was pretty exciting.
If Meghan does marry Harry, it will destroy the long-held notion that beingregal means being white, or that the main link between Africa andBuckingham Palace is one of colonial importance.
There is no escaping thefact that the royal family has benefited directly from years of violent slavery, but Idelight in the fact that, despite the disgusting headlines linking Meghans own family to shackles and chains, or the think pieces expressing fear around the Windsor gene pool being infiltrated with a rich and exotic DNA, Meghans position beside her partner, Harry, means she is subverting social hierarchy and upending the British class system in the process.
Of course, Meghan is more white-passing than African in appearance, and her good looks and accumulated wealth exclude her from many of the hardships that women of colour face in the UK today. But her proximity to the palace is helping to spark dialogue around the often-overlooked complexities of mixed-race identities in Britain. So for the first time ever, Ill be keeping an eye out for a royal wedding.